Mal de la coeur

The worst part about being single is not having anyone there anytime you need to be loved. I have this yearning to be held, to be kissed, and to be loved. Now I'm usually fine being single. I'm not the kind of person who needs a relationship to be happy, and I'm usually equally happy being single as I am in a relationship. I have wonderful friends, family and people that I love dearly. But what do you do when you need to be loved?

Most guys I have met lately just want to get laid and that's it. They're interested in starting up a sexual fling, but that's not what I'm looking for now. I literally got 5+ emails yesterday alone from guys saying I was beautiful and wanting to get to know me or wanting to be "friends". Yes, I am a sexual person and I do believe that sex is a very important part of a relationship. Heck, it can be a great part of a friendship. But are there any guys out there that want romance in addition to just sex? Are there any guys that would be there when I need a hug, when I want to talk about something that I find interesting, or when I want someone to cuddle up and watch a movie with? Oh Goddess, where is that guy or girl?

Gwen

Update again

I wanted to give a short update to everyone. When you think things are just too good to be true, they usually are. The guy that was such a great guy and so awesome? Not only was he using me for my money (always promised to pay me back once he got his first paycheck), but I found out he was coming onto tons of women on Myspace behind my back telling them that he had broken up with his girlfriend WHILE he was living with me and making purchases on my debit card I didn't authorize. What a scum!! I'm so glad that I kicked him out, and I'm not looking back. Why do guys feel that they can use, abuse, lie and sneak around behind your back? Why can't I just get someone who will love me for me?